A Proposal Shoot in the Shard, London Bridge

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This job was a real challenge, and the brief was to capture an intimate moment in an extremely dark space, 31 floors up into the dark orange London sky. The job had 2 parts, a shot in a dimly lit hotel room with a view of Tower Bridge and a shoot in Shard, the tallest building in the UK with among the highest restaurants in London. As always with a shoot, I visit the venue beforehand to gauge the correct camera settings that I will use to shoot with, especially at night. I could use a flash, and own a speedlight but it came with my camera as part of the deal and is the crappiest speedlight I have ever used, even confounding the course leader on my Trained Eye course. It would be akin to releasing an atomic bomb in an intimate restaurant, with flat, dull, mobile phone images as the fallout. It also goes against the images I like to create, especially a proposal. I enjoy the warmth of the images that I did capture during this job.

On the Saturday I cycled through throngs of people enjoying their Saturday night out, and queued up for the security to access the Shard, surrounded by people in ballgowns and tuxedos. When I arrived at the restaurant my worst fears were confirmed – the place was totally pitch black! To top it off, the restaurant people also told me I was not allowed a professional camera! I had to slip away when the waiter was accosted by another customer and quickly scope out the restaurant to see where the lightest areas were/or where I could reflect light from. I went to bed very anxious that night. What is the worst thing that could happen? Create really grainy images on a mobile phone because my camera was thrown from the Shard and smashed by the restaurant staff. Then get unhappy clients.

The Aqua restaurant in The Shard London Bridge. Beautiful venue but very challenging to shoot in.

If it was not for my prime 50 ml lens or ‘nifty-fifty’ I would not have been able to do the job at all. I had to stop down to ISO 12800 which is extremely bad for any photographer, yet alone myself who rarely goes above 800 for fear of grainy – noisy – images. However it was either this or not have any images to deliver! My instinct was to naturally panic when I saw how dark the client’s table was, luckily it was in corner of the restaurant so I could have a bit more space to move around with my prime lens. However the shots I got were extremely poor, with the faces of the couple extremely grainy and difficult to make out, with the bright city lights behind them. I showed the guy who was about to propose and he handed me his Android phone which I had no idea how to use. I took some really bad pictures with a flash and after 5 minutes of using a phone to take photos as a paid professional photographer I had the idea to take the couple to a brighter area of the restaurant as seen in the above photo. Their faces would still be grainy at ISO 3200 however this is more of a native ISO to the camera so would be far better than those I took at ISO 12800.

This was one of my favourite shots of the evening, you can see her fiance’s face in the mirror, with the future bride’s face at the centre of the image.

However the client thought this was too public an area to make his proposal. A restaurant worker then came up and said a professional camera is not appropriate for the restaurant! This was my worst nightmare, the sort of thing that makes me nervous before any job. Just as I thought about shooting on the landing of the stairs leading down into the restaurant from the lifts, the Maitre’D of the shift very kindly offered us a private dining area around the other side of the venue which has a gorgeous chandelier in the centre, which casts a beautiful, intimate and warm light. My confidence rushed back, and I moved the chairs around and asked the couple to pose by the window where I got some shots that I was very proud of. In fact I ended up staying an extra 10 minutes so that I could capture more moments of the proposal. The images I created were exactly what I want to offer as The Timeless Lens because these are images that the couple can look at for many years to come.

Why you should take Pre-Wedding “Getting Ready” Photographs

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Vintage bridal bouquet & Shoes on a mosaic floor

As anyone who has got married before will tell you, the most important part of the day might be the part where you say “I do”, but there is so much more to a wedding than that. In fact, despite the day being about the joining of two people, there are usually large chunks of the day where you don’t see your future spouse at all, such as during the ‘getting ready’ process. 

If you’re doing the super traditional thing of sleeping apart and not seeing each other until you get to the altar, having your photographers present will mean that you don’t miss those special moments that happen when you’re apart. Here are some more reasons for starting the photography at the very beginning of your day:

Telling a Story

As we mentioned above, your wedding day is a sum of many parts and just as you’ll want to take photos at the reception, taking photos while you’re getting ready will help you to tell the story from beginning to end. 

When you look back on your images in the days and weeks after the wedding, being able to see both nearly-weds going through the process of getting ready, getting into their finery and spending the time with their parents, bridesmaids or groomsmen will give you a complete storyline for the whole day. It will also look fabulous when placed chronologically in your wedding album. 

Capturing Special Moments

Do you remember how it felt to put your wedding dress on? The look on your parents’ faces when they saw you for the first time? The group hug you had with your best friends before they accompanied you down the aisle? Maybe you do, but on a day which is going to be busy and overwhelming, there’s a good chance that you’ll forget one or two of these moments. 

Having your wedding photographer present and taking candid shots while all of these things are happening means that you won’t need to use your memory to remember everything – you’ll have beautiful images to preserve the moments forever. If you also, as we mentioned in our previous post (ADD LINK), give your photographer a face log containing images of your nearest and dearest, you’ll ensure they’re present and alert when you’re interacting with your most important guests. 

Gaining Confidence

There aren’t many people in the world who are used to the feeling of having a photographer following you around and taking photos of you, so it’s likely to feel a little alien on your wedding day, too. 

If you start having photos taken right at the beginning of the day, before you’re even in your ceremonial clothes, there’s a good chance that you’ll feel significantly more comfortable and confident in front of the camera as the day goes on. This will also mean that the quality of your images will probably get better as the day goes on, too, as your photographer and yourself will be a lot more ‘in sync’ with one another. 

Wedding photographers are usually pretty intuitive when it comes to other people, but it still takes time for them to get to know you and your personal quirks, so giving them this kind of “all access pass” to your whole day will give them even more to work with. 

Attention to Detail

Once the ceremony and reception are underway, the opportunities for detailed photos become less and less. Later in the day, there will be guests around and a schedule to stick to, plus group shots to think about. Trust us – you really don’t want to be waiting til you’ve got 150 guests to greet, first dances to perform and many glasses of champagne in your system before you think about photographing small details!

Allowing your photographer to be there while you and your partner are getting ready will mean that images of things like your engagement rings, personalised cufflinks, shoes, intricate dress details and your “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue” (if you’re having them) are much easier to capture, especially if your photographer needs to set up special lighting or backdrops for the images. 

3 Recommended Poses for Pre-Wedding Bridal Suite

Bride preparation, putting earrings on, smiling and looking at herself in the mirror.

Accessories – take images of your rings, tiara, special jewellery and any other accessories you’re wearing on the day.

Dress – there will be lots of images of you in your dress on the day, but remember to ask your photographer to get up-close images of any details you want to highlight.

Bridal Group – group shots of the bride and her bridal party are something you’ll cherish for years to come. 

3 Poses for Pre-Wedding Photos in Groom’s Suite

Cufflinks – cufflinks are the groom’s equivalent of a tiara, adding a bit of bling to your suit. Ask the photographer to get some up close shots of these on the day.

Groomsmen – getting ready for your big day with your brothers or best friends is something you’ll want to look back on after the day. 

Candid Checks – Getting the photographer to capture your last minute checks, like making sure you’ve got your vows, checking the time on a pocket watch or your best man straightening your bow tie will make for great candid images.